If I think to myself “career” I will get very despondent, realising that I’ve been left behind. At this point, it seems impossible to catch up with my peers, many of whom who have raced ahead into senior leadership.
However, if I recenter and think to myself “life” it will calm my nerves. That is where I recall that work is a means to an end, not an end in itself. What we need is a role which enables us to meet our living expenses, and provides some sense of satisfaction. After that, it is all personal ambition.
If we had remained in London, and chosen to buy a house there rather than moving out in search of affordable accommodation, I realise I would have no choice but to rapidly climb the career ladder, simply to keep up with mortgage repayments and rising costs.
As it is, perhaps I have the luxury of resting on my laurels, remaining in a role I generally enjoy long after others would have transitioned on, by virtue of us choosing to live within our means, where we live, and being content with what we have. Actually, we have more than enough.
Whenever I feel myself growing despondent, I know it’s a sign to reset my mindset and count my blessings. Here I must recall what my personal ambitions were. There lies peace and that sense of self-worth.
Last modified: 22 September 2024
