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	<title>Comments on: Where you from, brother?</title>
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	<description>in pursuit of the garden</description>
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		<title>By: Amna</title>
		<link>http://folio.me.uk/2010/04/where-you-from/comment-page-1/#comment-2379</link>
		<dc:creator>Amna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 15:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps this &quot;where are you from?&quot; question also has to do with immigrant identity. Fortunately, the muslim community here in Toronto is extremely diverse but the &quot;where are you from&quot; question is still very common (regardless of one&#039;s ethnicity). I have always felt it was more about people trying to find someone to talk about their roots with.  To find the commonality  within the heartache, intricacies, losses and self-acceptance the immigrant experience brings. In many ways, this question has really enriched my life. Just yesterday at the mosque, I had a beautiful conversation with a Somali sister about her life in Mogadishu. It all started with her asking me where I was from.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps this &#8220;where are you from?&#8221; question also has to do with immigrant identity. Fortunately, the muslim community here in Toronto is extremely diverse but the &#8220;where are you from&#8221; question is still very common (regardless of one&#8217;s ethnicity). I have always felt it was more about people trying to find someone to talk about their roots with.  To find the commonality  within the heartache, intricacies, losses and self-acceptance the immigrant experience brings. In many ways, this question has really enriched my life. Just yesterday at the mosque, I had a beautiful conversation with a Somali sister about her life in Mogadishu. It all started with her asking me where I was from.</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy Bowes</title>
		<link>http://folio.me.uk/2010/04/where-you-from/comment-page-1/#comment-2351</link>
		<dc:creator>Timothy Bowes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 08:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the advice.</p>
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		<title>By: mohammad</title>
		<link>http://folio.me.uk/2010/04/where-you-from/comment-page-1/#comment-2350</link>
		<dc:creator>mohammad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 23:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;Sallam, &lt;/em&gt;

Why not just enjoy the fact someone cares enough to even ask you about yourself? We get it you&#039;re from &quot;here&quot; great. The people asking you are not trying to be funny or mean, no need to find it a sort of comedy or a source of anger. Get over yourself and enjoy the ride!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Sallam, </em></p>
<p>Why not just enjoy the fact someone cares enough to even ask you about yourself? We get it you&#8217;re from &#8220;here&#8221; great. The people asking you are not trying to be funny or mean, no need to find it a sort of comedy or a source of anger. Get over yourself and enjoy the ride!</p>
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		<title>By: Abdul Ghani</title>
		<link>http://folio.me.uk/2010/04/where-you-from/comment-page-1/#comment-2347</link>
		<dc:creator>Abdul Ghani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Apr 2010 07:23:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;Salam alaikum&lt;/em&gt;,

Eh. I&#039;m from the same land as Abul Layth and my experience has always been the opposite --- if not utterly indifferent, born Muslims are much more likely to put the white convert on a pedestal. If he converted in front of them, they praise the trueness of his faith in contrast to their supposedly under-appreciated inheritance. If he came to them a Muslim, they&#039;ll hold his knowledge above their own and make him give a talk, teach a class, watch their kids, etc.

The foolish white convert of course assumes the latter to have something to do with the knowledge his &lt;em&gt;nafs&lt;/em&gt; tells him he actually possesses. Trust me now, all of the fresh faced young white converts reading this, that is rarely the case. The nature of your liberal arts education and the process of adult conversion may combine to mean you know more of the &lt;em&gt;ahkam&lt;/em&gt; than many of them, but the fact that they offer and you agree to become the &lt;em&gt;khatib&lt;/em&gt; or the principal of the Sunday school should be the first clue that they most likely know something that you do not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Salam alaikum</em>,</p>
<p>Eh. I&#8217;m from the same land as Abul Layth and my experience has always been the opposite &#8212; if not utterly indifferent, born Muslims are much more likely to put the white convert on a pedestal. If he converted in front of them, they praise the trueness of his faith in contrast to their supposedly under-appreciated inheritance. If he came to them a Muslim, they&#8217;ll hold his knowledge above their own and make him give a talk, teach a class, watch their kids, etc.</p>
<p>The foolish white convert of course assumes the latter to have something to do with the knowledge his <em>nafs</em> tells him he actually possesses. Trust me now, all of the fresh faced young white converts reading this, that is rarely the case. The nature of your liberal arts education and the process of adult conversion may combine to mean you know more of the <em>ahkam</em> than many of them, but the fact that they offer and you agree to become the <em>khatib</em> or the principal of the Sunday school should be the first clue that they most likely know something that you do not.</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy Bowes</title>
		<link>http://folio.me.uk/2010/04/where-you-from/comment-page-1/#comment-2336</link>
		<dc:creator>Timothy Bowes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 07:36:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Salam alaikum Abul Layth,

That&#039;s really almost the reverse of my experience, but I do live in another land and on another continent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salam alaikum Abul Layth,</p>
<p>That&#8217;s really almost the reverse of my experience, but I do live in another land and on another continent.</p>
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